Semi Secret Lifestyle

Written by StressedHubby

I know, I know.... Certain things shouldn't be reveled in certain forums but thankfully this is one of those forums and this is one of those stories.

As simple as it will come to sound it was a long difficult journey to finally realize that our marriage and lifestyle were just a little bit different than your "normal" relationships.

It started simply enough in the fall of 2002, she wanted more than I was able to give her so I was stuck at home with nothing but a computer and time. She decided that staying out with her friends was a bigger part of her life than I was at the time and she started doing things behind my back. I figured she was cheating when she started staying out for days at a time. I was in a different town (had no licence at the time) and she was staying in another town with relatives.

Finally she came home and said that she wanted me to find another woman for myself. I felt odd about this but her request was my chore. I started looking on line and started asking a lot of questions. Certain people started pointing me in the direction of specific explicit websites that may be able to help me in my search.

The search began in Yahoo but that was no good, everyone in there wanted a guy that had no wife, no kids and a car. Well I was left out of those conversations... My search and final result ended in the local swingers communities and website of such lifestyles.

I figured that if she was going to cheat on me I may as well be involved in it as well. I brought it up to her and she said search it and see what I could find. I started sending out email after email to folks that were within a few miles of where we lived and got as many refusals in return.

For the next two years we sent out hundreds of emails and most didn't reply, until...

The year was now 2004 and we made contact with a wonderful couple that was quite a bit older than us, but no worries there, age is just a number. Great folks they were, we really liked them, but unfortunately they knew my wife's family a little too well. So naturally that was the end of our potential relationship with them. We had a good evening of chatting and finding out more about the lifestyle, but that was all.

So our search started again and after almost 18 months, we finally met a couple that we thought we had a lot in common with and were chatting with for quite sometime. The good thing is that they lived quite far from us. After chatted online for a few months we started sharing our web cam interludes with one another, felt comfortable with them so we decided that if we were going to become active in this lifestyle, we should go ahead and meet them in person...