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Confused About Love

Written by Shels

He says he wants me....he says he likes where we are headed....and when I talk to him about the fact that I feel that outside of the bedroom we are great...but inside the bedroom...the private part of our relationship...it is all about him...what he wants when he wants it....he says he will make more of an effort....last night I looked at him and told him I was goin to bed...he did not react....I sent him a text from the bedroom that said....hey I am in bed....he said....Night!....I came into the living room and there he sat..computer on his lap..new movie playing on TV....and when I said something about it he got pissed off....Shot down again....and when I said something about getting shot down again he got even madder....

I have never had a guy fall head over heels in love with me....that crazy can’t keep your hands off of each other kind of love....I have resigned myself to the fact that I am just not that girl....but as I sit here and watch Under The Tuscan Sun and cry...he sits on the love seat facing me and he hasn’t even acknowledged that I am crying....

I feel so stupid...my head says wtf....my heart says you love him....and as he heads down the hall to take a nap without saying a word to me....I wonder....

Oh well....who am I to complain? Why question the path I am on? I need to learn to live and be happy with the life that has been laid out before me and make the very best of it....

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0 #4 your needs need to be met — ladyinstreets 2010-10-17 14:15

If he isnt meeting your needs my dear... GIVE Him his walking papers. Your in love with being in love.. Your not in love with him.. He isnt cutting it for you.. Go find your love go find the man that lights your fire. You will never find the Right man if you keep filling that hole up with the wrong one.

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0 #3 FIREPROFF the movie — edgar clark 2010-10-09 13:08

i must say if he likes movies the try this 1 i know after 13 years of marriage she left me but i watched the movie was worth it because i seen my faults and relized the mistakes i had made but she will not realize her own mistakes though anyway that all i can offer and if that dosent worl then move on because there are more people out their that need love to i will addmit that. and i do agree never settle move on if it dosent work out.

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0 #2 Stop being a doormat — AdviceGirl 2010-09-21 10:55

Just because we love someone that does not make it ok to put up with disrespectful behavior from anyone. Being single sucks most of the time..but we deserve and demand love and respect and our feelings and needs taken care of...if a man can't give us that....he is not the right one for us. Dump him....pull yourself together...taking care of yourself always comes first, nobody else will put us first, we must always put ourself first and not tolerate BAD WORD from men....ever.

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0 #1 never settle — adviceguru 2010-07-17 12:14

you must never settle on someone if they are not right for you in all ways. theres gotta be something going on if he doesnt want to have sex with you but maybe hes not willing or ready to talk about it. youve tried asking him and thats all you can do. i would move on and explain to him that you need someone who can fulfill all your needs and that if hes not willing to open up then its not working.

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